10 tips for personal bloggers

Posted by Ben on August 07, 2009 | Permalink | Hits: 1789 
Tags: personal blogs, personality, life

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This is a guest post from Kirsten, who blogs at All About Me - And Then Some. If you'd like to write a guest post for Top Ten Blog Tips, please contact me with the title of the post you'd like to write.

I'm Kirsten and I have a personal blog. I mostly write about myself, but once in awhile the cause of the personal blogger gets me fired up. I was inspired to write this after I read Ben's post 10 well-known blogging tips - and what I think of them.

I've been blogging for over 3 years now, and in addition to finding interesting blogs to read, I've seen lots and lots of blogs and blog posts on how to help make your blog bigger and better. But every single one of those blogs and posts appear to be targeted towards professionals, or those who hope to become professionals and earn a ridiculous amount of money from blogging. But what if you just want to blog? What if, instead of having a blog that preaches your expertise in a subject, your niche is YOU? Here are some tips I came up with to help myself see through all the pro-blog babble and stay focused on my own little blog.

1. Why are you blogging?

If you don't have a reason to be blogging, then you won't find satisfaction from it. I started my blog as an extension of my journal, hoping that maybe, just maybe, someone in the great wide interwebs would see it and provide some feedback. It worked - I've made some great friends in the time I've been blogging. I started blogging because it's therapeutic, and I continue to blog because of the relationships that I've made. Others I know blog to keep far-flung family and friends updated on their lives. Why are you blogging?

2. Don't expect to make money

In fact, don't even try. It's extremely rare that a personal blogger can make any money at blogging. If it happens, it usually amounts to pocket change. Don't worry about signing up for affiliate marketing or other advertising options. If you get to a point where you have a decent number of readers and want to start sharing some favorite products through advertising, that's great. Just don't set out with the goal of making money, because it won't happen.

3. Forget about the most popular tips

SEO, Content is King, get your own domain, etc. Every pro and pro-wannabe preaches this gospel. If all you want to do is talk about your life, what does it matter where you rank in the search engines? And your content will be about your life. People will either like it or not, just like in real life. As for your own domain, this is a decision that only you can make. The free options out there are really decent options for personal blogs.

4. Don't ignore the pro advice

This seems to contradict tip #3, but there is a lot of advice that the pros give regarding blog design, commenting, etc that is relevant to all blogs, personal or not. You don't have to stop listening to the pros altogether, but you also don't need to worry about every single piece of advice they dish out. Pick and choose what's relevant to your blog and situation, and ignore the rest.

5. Be yourself

While the anonymity of the internet can be an opportunity to let hidden parts of your personality shine, don't try to create a persona that is nothing like you. Unless you are extremely creative and tenacious, eventually the real you is going to want to come out and one of two things will happen - it will show on your blog, which could affect your readership, or you'll end up abandoning your blog instead of showing your real face. Being anonymous and protecting your identity are one thing, but being fake is quite another. Be the real you on your blog, which is what people want to see on a personal blog - a real person.

6. Don't listen to the naysayers

There will be people out there who will tell you that personal blogging is not a worthy endeavor. Personal blogging is dead, they say. These are probably the same people who wouldn't be caught dead in last season's fashions. I say, if it's something you enjoy then go for it. Because a personal blog is meant to communicate your thoughts about your own life, it's not meant to be a trendsetting moneymaker. 

7. Think like a storyteller

Some people are natural storytellers, and a post about the most mundane things will appear as a great adventure. Other people, not so much. To make your blog more fun to read, think like a storyteller and be descriptive. Imagine you are telling your stories to a large audience (which you are, since you're on the internet). Try to come up with some creative language to spice things up a bit. Which would you rather read?
a) I made myself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
b) I realized that the absolute freshest bread is not good PB&J material. As I was spreading the peanut butter, then came apart and stuck to the PB coated knife, until the knife was covered in a giant wad of peanut butter and bread. Now onto the jelly.

8. Be careful

I don't think you need me to tell you how accessible the internet is to the entire world. Think hard about how much personal information you want to reveal about yourself online. I'm fine with people knowing my first name and what city I live in, but I don't reveal my workplace and keep my family and friends way more anonymous than myself. Also be very careful if you decide to blog about your workplace or anyone you work with. You don't want to jeopardize your job because of what you write online.

9. Get out there and make friends

I have to admit, I'm not that great at making friends. However, I've found it much easier online to be social and make friends. Blogging gives others a chance to get to know you, and vice versa, before that first comment is made. By the time someone comments, you've said something that someone else wanted to hear or that struck a chord with them. Comment back, say hi, and visit their blog - and click on the links in their blogroll. You'll find this is the best way to just get out there, meet people online, and make friends all over the world. That, to me, is the most fun thing about blogging.

10. Keep at it

If you're blogging to get out there and make friends, or just to be heard, keep at it. It will take you some time to build up a network of blogging friends, so don't give up after the first few posts. It can be lonely when you start out, because you feel like you're talking into a void, but sooner or later people will come across your blog, read what you've written, and be compelled to comment because they felt a connection. Don't feel pressured to become something you're not just to gain a readership (see point #5). Just tell your story, say what you're feeling, and get it out there.

Personal blogs are extremely popular, and extremely underserved when it comes to "how-to" advice. I hope this list was helpful to all the personal bloggers out there!

What do you think? Do you have a personal blog? Do you agree with these tips? Are there any others you'd like to suggest?

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Comments on 10 tips for personal bloggers

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Ben | August 12, 2009 | 207 comments

Thanks Vince, but this is a guest post written by Kirsten - I can't take credit for it. :)

Thanks to Kirsten for the post. Great job!